When you’re ready. When you feel like you’ve exhausted all possibilities. When you feel like you’ve done everything you can. When you are miserable. When you are crying every week. When you feel that your behavior has changed due to their behavior. When you feel like you are no longer yourself. When you feel you can’t possibly be your best self around your kids. When the slightest little thing hurts because you’ve completely lost perspective and become a ball of hurt. When you find that you are constantly “setting the reset button”. When you are afraid of the next drama. When you want to get off the rollercoaster. When you want to protect yourself, your kids, your job. When you’ve tried everything else and you are ready.
